Pain is inevitably real

最初那一句台词 填补了寂寞位子
The very first opening line fills up the lonely space
它不关年少无知
It has nothing to do with being young and naive
谁都高估爱的价值
Everyone overestimates the value of love

开始结束 彷佛公式
Formulaic beginnings and endings

痛难免真实...
Pain is inevitably real...

Listen to the wind

i don't get it.

is the existence of _____ only proven by clutching it in hands? when have we repudiated feeling, its density and perfume of emotions, as the solid evidence of its presence? to feel with heart...

until people have learnt to listen to the wind, they share the same concept of object permanence as a baby.

listen... to the wind, not the rustling of leaves.

Maturity AND degradation

the world is wondrous, if, and only if.
The Little Prince would not return to his planet through a venomous snake bite.

look, they exploit your kindness in mockery and attribute it to your stupidity.

If I were one given to spite, perhaps I'd be getting along just fine with life. But I haven't learned, it seems, to believe the world truly ugly, and get prickly with my defenses.
-anru

how true, unfortunately.

i hope The Little Prince stays...with me... even when my heart shattered like glass.

To YOU, with empathy.

at the end of the day, everyone needs to perfect the skill of masking all sorrows & despairs with a smile. it’s not hypocrisy, not isolation but a mere act of kindness to yourself AND people around you. most of the time, we are so indulge in self-serving biasness to assume that we are the one and only one to endure the most amount of pain. has it ever occurred to u that what u saw and heard are only tips of the icebergs? how much does it take for a person to put behind glaciers of tears to be laughing with u?

if it’s the case, do u bear to inflict more agony on those you love by pouring your share of it to them? I don’t… & I won’t.

& had I not been living on the other side of the globe, away from family & close friends, I would not see it.

too often we presume friends & family are obligated to help us.
too often we regard them to be compelled to take care of our emotional needs.
too often we forget such act is a blessing & overlook it at our own apathy.

I’m sorry if I sound judgmental. for the fortunate few (or unfortunate depending on how u see it) who contemplate the material world only, it may not be necessary to see this. But for the rest, I think it helps to ease possible feelings of seclusion & to adjust the mood.

I hope u are happy most of the time. so do all of my few close friends. Seriously.

Ps. When it comes to bgr, if u’ve put in the amt of effort tt u feel it’s justifiable & it’s still not working, it’s time to let go. May be I’m too pessimistic but I seriously think for the level of risk & amt of output in any bgr, it’s not worth u investing so much time & energy ESPECIALLY if u r unhappy.